Jul 25, 2009

I Love Women

There's something magical about strong women that makes me deeply admire them. I feel inspired every time I come across of a story of a woman who has lived a remarkable life, made career, raised children and most importantly -- speaks words of wisdom.

While I was making research about the best education innovators in the world I came across a lady named Nel Noddings. Chances are you've never heard of her, but just reading her story and ideas gave me goosebumps.

Being a mom of 10 children and married for more than half a century is an overachievement for most of the women. Being a mom can easily become an excuse to cover up so common fears, doubts and self-criticism that most of the women have. "Oh, I didn't have time for all of this, I was raising my kids." Which much too often actually means: "I never dared to dream more."

And then there are women like Nel Noddings who defy the odds, remain chilled, cheerful and relaxed while bringing up their kids and building a marriage -- and also make an outstanding contribution to the world. This article was my sheer moment of inspiration from today.

And even reading her bio from Wiki gave me a boost of energy. What a legacy to leave to the world! I'd love to know your thoughts on her story.

"Nel Noddings worked in many areas of the education system. She spent seventeen years as an elementary and high school mathematics teacher and school administrator, before earning her PhD and beginning work as an academic in the fields of philosophy of education, theory of education and ethics, specifically moral education and ethics of care.
She became a member of the Stanford faculty in 1977, and was the Jacks Professor of Child Education from 1992 until 1998. While at Stanford University she received awards for teaching excellence in 1981, 1982 and 1997, and was the associate dean or acting dean of the School of Education for four years.

After leaving Stanford University, she held positions at Columbia University and Colgate University. She is past president of the Philosophy of Education Society and the John Dewey Society. In 2002-2003 she held the John W. Porter Chair in Urban Education at Eastern Michigan University. She has been Lee L. Jacks Professor of Education, Emerita, at Stanford University since she retired in 1998.

Nel Noddings has 10 children and in 2004 had been married for 54 years. She has described her early educational experiences and her close relationships as key in her development of her philosophical position."

4 comments:

Liina said...

wow..........wow....

Marjeta said...

Dear Marjam,

I have been reading your blog, this last month with amazing synchronicity: this July my husband and I are writing a book on using participatory processes with kids in order to come to good family-related decisions. The other day I was writing about the sense of self-worth in children - and via Facebook came across your piece about the connection between contribution and selfworth. You very beautifully expressed my own deepest thoughts; it was really inspiring!!! Today there is another 'coincidence': I am just starting to edit the chapter I've written about schools (how to support children to get to know their real needs regarding education - not an easy things to do), and your today's blog shed some extra light on my thoughts. Besides, I am also a great admirer of strong, realised women. So please keep writing this blog!!! It's always lucid, fresh and inspiring.

Marjeta (Art of Hosting in Belgium; ex-single parent etc)

Marjam Vaher said...

Marjeta, thanks a lot for sharing this! This is amazing how the universe works and makes the right things happening at the right time.

The project you're working on sounds really exciting, could you share a few more details? I'm very interested in how the art of hosting philosophy could be used in the school system, is it something along that way?

Thanks!

Love,
Marjam

Marjeta said...

Hi Marjem,

It's basically Art of Hosting used within a family! (with tools, processes...)


Marjeta